I am a pro-life because my mother almost aborted both my twin sister and I. And now my mother says the best thing that ever happened to her was having her children. I am also pro-life because I made the decision to not have my children because I bought into the lie that children will ruin my life and my potential of being something in my life. There is not a day that goes by that I do not think of them. Being a mother would have been the most important thing I could’ve ever done…And no one told me the loneliness that would occur at 57 years old with no children no grandchildren. Alone. I thank God for heaven because I know my children are with Jesus. In the meantime, I will love all the children that God brought into this world to people who chose to not be selfish.